Everyone who has ever gone on a date, they know how difficult it can be sometimes to establish a strong chemistry with a person who is sitting in front of you. Sometimes, your date didn’t go as well as you thought it would be and you fluster with the stuff that what went wrong. There are some dating tips which may help you to learn that how can you avoid those things which can ruin your first date.
1. Talking about marriage and children
Avoid talking about marriage and children on a first date. First date should be fun and frivolous, talking about all silly questions, flirting and giggles. If you want to know about their views on long term relationship then try to find more subtle ways to ask and detect their views. Try to ask about their job, living status or lifestyle, this conversation will help you to know if your date is looking for a log term relationship or it’s just for fun.
2. Lack of communication
If you feel nervous or uncomfortable on a first date and you are not talking, your silence may ruin your date. If the conversation becomes one-sided with the person whose sitting across the table from you may believe that you are not interested but the real fact you really are. Try to be comfortable with your date.
3. Insulting your date
While talking with your date, if you are being rude or rudely commenting on a person, then they may take it as a personal attack. It can definitely ruin your date. Try to be polite and cool on your first date.
4. Asking about salary
To inquire about financial status of a person, is not a polite question. You are not buying something; this is a life partner you are thinking about. This question guarantees to ruin your chances of getting a second date.
5. Talking about ex partner
You are on a date with him and he is on a date with you. Pay attention to each other and not your ex partners if any. In fact, avoid talking about other males and females generally. Just focus on each other. This will help you to move forward.
We hope the above matter will help you in having a good date.