It is fairly common in an India Matrimony set up for the parents and relatives to initiate an arranged marriage for their son or daughter. This could be initiated through word of mouth, through a matrimonial website or with the help of a marriage bureau. Either which ways, there are going to be multiple occasions when you are expected to meet a complete stranger and gauge whether or not they will make a suitable life partner for yourself.
Overcoming the Pressures of Making the Right Intention
It is understandable that this could put a lot of pressure on yourself since you would also be focusing on making the right impression. At the same time, you must make sure that the stress of the situation does not hold you back from striking an interesting conversation so that you can actually gauge the opposite persons intentions and qualities.
Here are a few topics you can bring up while you are meeting someone for the purpose of an India Matrimony–
1. With a number of resources at hand to conduct a background check on the person through social networking profiles, you could look up some of his or her interests and try to get to know a little more about the person through that.
2. If you are told that the person is into sports, talk about his or her interests and you will be able to gauge his level of commitment, dedication and passion.
3. Try to keep the conversation as casual as possible so that you are able to be yourself and also make sure that the prospective bride or groom is also comfortable around you.
4. Bringing up informal conversations with respect to movies, music, books, likes, dislikes can tell you enough about the person in the first meeting to gauge whether or not you would like to meet this person again.
The idea is to make sure that you do not succumb from the pressures of making an impression and try to be yourself as much as possible. The more comfortable you are the easier it will be for you to engage with the opposite person and make the right decision.