Hindu Wedding Rituals You Must Know All About
Marriage/Shaadi is a sacred sanctity that no one tends to question. It is an all harmonious bond that is made out of love, faith and companionship.
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Lighting the sacred fire. A key aspect of the Hindu ceremony is to light a scared fire, usually created from ghee and wooden wicks, to evoke the God, Agni, to bear witness to the ceremony. I often ask a dad, brother, or uncle to create the sacred fire. One family wanted to use coconut oil and so the bride’s father tended the fire through the whole ceremony. This spirit of Agni in invoked to cleanse the union of all the evil eyes and words and build it on purity and transparency.
Garland Exchange. During the ceremony the couple exchanges fresh garlands, welcoming each other into each other’s families. I like to make it one of the first gestures in an interfaith ceremony. It is a lovely way to establish a connection between the couple and their loved ones. It is an invitation to join souls and involvement into each other’s life for the longer run.
Family traditions. India is known for its abundance in diversity and although there are universal components in the Hindu ceremony, each region in India comes with its set of local customs and each family may pray to different gods and goddesses. Ask your family about specific regional traditions. This instils the fact that the marriage needs to be blessed by higher powers in order to succeed and thrive.
Creating a sacred space. The need to create a sacred space has been cherished through the rites of Hindu customaries. One way to honour that tradition is to have the ceremony under a four pillar canopy, and raised platform, called a mandap, which represents a temple. This sanctity of the temple emulates the act of taking auspicious blessings through pooja. While traditionally the couple sits on thrones or pillows, interfaith couples usually stand at the altar.
The Seven Sacred Steps. The highlight is Saptapadi, also called “The Seven Steps.” Traditionally, the bride’s sari is tied to the groom’s Kurta, or a sari shawl might be draped from his shoulder to her sari. He leads, often by her pinkie linked with his pinky, in seven steps around the fire, as the priest chants seven blessings or vows for a strong marriage. By walking around the fire they are agreeing to these vows. With each step, they throw small bits of puffed rice into the fire, representing prosperity in their new life together. This is considered the most important part of the ceremony, as it seals the bond between the couple forever.