Best Ways to Rekindle the Passion in Your Marriage

Best Ways to Rekindle the Passion in Your Marriage

Let’s face it on the outset. It’s not easy. With the hundreds of guides starting with “How To”, there must be at least a dozen on how to get your wife’s love back. Some of them talk about the ways you can surprise her, while others focus on the merits of appreciation.

However, all of them would account for nothing if done without honesty. If you try to fool your wife by lying about how wonderful she is when you feel quite the oppo, she will catch your bluff in a matter of an eye blink. That would do more harm than ever to your chances of rekindling her love for you.

The following suggestions focus on your understanding of her value so that you rekindle your love for your wife before trying to rekindle her love for you.

Take Notice of Her Contributions

One of the most prominent reasons for the loss of love among couples is that they start taking each other for granted after a few years. When you come back from the office, you are completely sure that your wife will have completed all her tasks. Then begins the phase when your appreciations stop, and your wife starts to feel that she is performing a thankless role. Remember the initial times together, when you would not tire of thanking the heavens for just a smile on her lips? She would do nothing more than throw a carefree smile at you and you would have thanked her a thousand times if provided the opportunity! Look at all the tireless efforts she puts in now to make your life comfortable and realize how grateful you have been. Once you realize this, go to her and thank her for all that she has done for you over the years. Be earnest in your praises, and don’t say anything which you don’t mean. You might think you are a good actor, but your wife is a better detective!

Gifts! Gifts!

When it comes to ladies, gifts have always done the trick, and for ages now. Surprise her with presents on days she is least expecting them. Contrary to what the advertisements for diamonds would have you believe, women are not half more excited by the price of the gift than the manner in which it is given. Given properly, and with the right dose of romance, a single rose can achieve what whole sets of pearls cannot. Vacations, dinner outs, movies, etc. There are other brilliant ways of rekindling your wife’s love.

Planning a romantic date

This does not mean the typical, and probably boring, dinner and a movie. Instead, try something novel, inspiring, or adventurous that provides a lasting and romantic memory for life.

  1. Try something spontaneous and adventurous like arriving at the airport with no bags or destination and jumping on a plane to someplace you have never been before.
  2. Do something inspiring, like participating in a new activity together. Try pottery making, go ice skating, or take a class on how to give a sensual massage.
  3. Seek out something novel, like a hot air balloon ride, horse back riding, or rock climbing.

Give her your time

Most marriage counselors opine that marriages break when the couple stops spending sufficient time with each other. No matter how busy is your schedule, find out the time and spend time with her. Replace the window drapes, redesign the drawing room, or simply let her lie in your arms. Just being with her will assure her in many ways.

The efforts to rekindle your wife’s love should not be a temporary fix for the problems. They should be long-lasting solutions that pave the way for the romance to be kept alive throughout.